Women Health

While women are repotly unconcerned about the actual length of a penis, it remains a male fetish for such a seemingly trivial matter – which has become a measure for many – of one’s manhood.
According to many sexuality experts, what makes a man a really good lover isn’t the size below the belt but how sensitive and sensuous, informed and imaginative you are.
Your hands, mouth and whole body matter as much if not more than your penis, and women get the most exciting sensations – not through the vagina itself but through the clitoris – which you stimulate with your hands, mouth or groin, not your penis.
If your partner complains of lack of sensation, it may well be that she has a problem, nothing to do with your anatomy. And if it is your loving that is at faulth, then it’s not that you need to grow an extra inch but that you need to develop more skills and sensitivity as a lover.
But if you’re still anxious, don’t suffer in silence. See your doctor for a check up. Your problem are far more likely to be down to lack of confidence and self – esteem in general than that your penis is too small.
If you’re in your teens, it could be you still have some developing to do. If you’re not confident the doctor is taking your worries seriously, ask for a referral so you can see a specialist. They can advise you if you are one of the tiny minority who really are extra – small (micro – penis) and for whom treatment might be advisable.

Spurious Suspicion
If after seeing a doctor, you are reassured that three is nothing wrong physically, then it may be you are focusing all sorts of other worries onto this very symbolic part of your body. And that’s how many fall for promises offered via spam emails.
Fact of the matter is, even if none would admit to having such hang-ups, just about every man would like his penis to be that extra inch or so longer or bigger.
Men have always tended to eye each other up nervously when they get the opportunity but the anxieties have probably gotten warse now that internet pornography and sex videos are so much more widely available.
As with most movie casting – where exceptionally beautiful women take lead roles – the men in those sex videos are specially selected just because they are exceptionally large, and so blokes get the feeling that is the norm when actually it is abnormal.
You shouldn’t also feel too bad if you notice that other men seem much larger than you when you see them in the toilets, showers or changing rooms.
Statistics for penis size vary but the latest reliable research is that the greater proportion of penises are usually around 5 cm (two inches) in length when soft and range from 11.5 cm (4.6 inches) to 15 cm (nearly six inches) when erect.
The average erect penis is about 13 cm (5.2 inches) – about the size of a tube of tootpaste, as someone pointed out.
One should also take note that willies do tend to average out in size when it matter – that is erect – and you should bear in mind that, when you see other men’s you’re seeing them from a different angle – you’re across at theirs and down at your own, which has a foreshortening effect.
And don’t forget that your penis is very clever – it shrinks upwards and presses itself close up against the body for warmth and safety when you’re anxious or cold – as when you’re naked or partially undressed in that changing room.

When It Matters
There’s always as urban myth runnin around about how men have been humiliated by women who have laughed at the size of their penis. In almost every case, it is because they were having casual sex is all about judging each other by physique and performance, not intensife of feelings – nor even the quality of sex.
Hence, you will probably get a more cheering view or your equipment if you try looking at yourself, when you’re warm and relaxed at home in a full – length mirror – which is how others see you.
Also, women in a loving relationship aren’t as conscious of penis size as men. In fact, too larege a penis causes women far more serious concerns than a small one.
Even if you do still worry you’re on the small side, it really won’t spoil your love life – or your partner’s satisfaction. It is all about technique and variety.
If you’ve made her orgasm through oral sex, masturbation and given her a wonderful sensual massage, you take the main focus off intercourse, which eases the pressure for both of you. Most women find it difficult to reach orgasm through intercourse alone, so, she’ll be happy with the change in emphasis.

Positive Distraction
Sometimes, the only way to exorcise the pink elephant in the room is to make it the main focus of discussion or even turn it into the brunt of jokes.
So, if the penis length is a concern,here’s one fun way to get an objective viewpoint that has absolutely nothing to do with the actual enjoyment of the intercourse – with a condom that comes with a printed – on ruler!
First introduced about a year ago in the Spanish capital of Madrid, Condometric is about as serious as this practical protection – and even comes in four dofferent flavours of natural latex, cherry, lime and banana.
Available in packages of 3, 6 and 12 units, its creators confidently suggest the prophylactic “helps flaunt what we’ve got. It’s about believing we can handle whatever we wish to take on, regardless of size.
Unfortunately, this ruled condom is available only via online booking and there are no statistics suggest just how popular it is worldwide – though some of the information taken from the creator’s website confirm Condometric prophylactics are made of natural rubber latex and are electronically tested one by one.
Also, its ink does not contain any ingredients that may cause allergic reactions. ( see box for more details )

Medical Means
Like many other forms of elective surgery, it is possible to enhance the penis size by going under the knife – though it isn’t widely recommended. There are two main techniques – but, like all surgery, each carries very real risks of complications.
One involves taking surplus fat from the body and inserting in under the skin of the penis. This has an initial effect but the fat can be reabsorbed, leaving little lasting improvement, or it can harden leaving a lumpy effect.
The other method is cutting the ligament from which the penis is suspended. This can leave hair growing on the first inch or so of the penis, and also make the angle of erection flatter. If you’re not uo to these methods, there’s also a gadget that claims to stretch a man’s willy by a bout a third. Called the extender, it uses a plactic ring, two rods and a silicon band and requires the user to wear the device for up to six hours a day for six months.
There’s no mention of the pain and discomfort involved nor how long the lengthening of the penis remains both in the flaccid and stretched state. If you’re considering pills, creams and gadgets which are advertised via spam mails to boost penis size, do note that basically, none of them work in any significant and permanent way. At best you can waste a lot of time and money. At worst, you could even da mage yourself.
You can also check out read for other scary details – but do note that is yet another website that promises another website that promises another unproven penile extension method.
The vast majority of men are best advised to accept themselves as they are. Your penis is just one, very human, part of you. Learn to love it.

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