MYTHS REGARDING FEMALE ORGASM

Myths and mystery surround female orgasms, which can lead to additional issues between couple if left unexplained or debunked.

Myth: An orgasm is always an earth – moving experience and there is something wrong if a women is unable to have one.

Fact : Some women have orgasm but don’t know it. Others may not experience orgasm by way of feeling of a contraction of the pelvic floor muscles. They do however reach a peak of of arousal after which they feel relaxed and contented, the same feelings other women experience after orgasm. By contrast, women who get very aroused and do not experience orgasm will sometimes feel nervous or edgy or even an aching discomfort in their pelvis.

Myth: “Normal” women reach orgasm through intercourse.

Fact: Only about a third of women experience orgasm regularly during intercourse. A third can reach orgasm with intercourse but need extra stimulation. A third never achieve orgasm during intercourse but can by manual and oral stimulation. Having orgasm by means other than intercourse is a normal variation of female sexuality. In the past, people though that “mature” women had their orgasm with intercourse. However, laboratory studies in the 1960′s showed that a orgasm is an orgasm no matter which way you obtain it. How a women reaches an orgasm has nothing to do with her manual health or emotional maturity.

Myth: Inability to reach orgasm, or anorgasmia means a women is “frigid” or that there is something wrong with her or her relationship.

Fact: Women who were able to have orgasms in the past but can no longer do so may be suffering from a medical problem or a side effect from medication. Women who have never had a n orgasm may never have learned what type and duration of stimulation they need.

Myth: If a women cannot reach orgasm, then her partner is not a skillful lover.

Fact: While there are many ways a loving partner can help a women reach orgasm, in the end, a women is resposible for her own sexual pleasure. That does not mean her partner should not be involved. Communication between partners is very important. It is up to the women to inform her partner her likes and dislikes in their love making.

Myth: A women has to have an orgasm in order to enjoy sex. This myth seems to be more common among men than among women.

Fact: Many women enjoy the closeness and physical intimacy of sex and are satisfied even if they do not, or do not always, have an orgasm. (Source: Gorgeous).

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