Jul
20
2010
Ketika lenguhan? “Ooh” menjadi jeritan “Ouw”, maka Anda tahu ada yang salah dalam tubuh Anda. Sakit saat berhubungan seks adalah masalah yang lazim ditemui, tetapi tidak harus selalu dianggap enteng.
Sakit ketika berhubungan seks dalam kedokteran dikenal dengan nama disparunia (dyspareunia). Meskipun pria juga dapat merasakan sakit saat berhubungan badan, disparunia lebih banyak terjadi pada wanita. Rasa sakit dapat terjadi di daerah kemaluan maupun lebih mendalam sampai ke panggul (pelvis) dengan karakteristik rasa nyeri yang tajam, perih atau seperti kram
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Jul
08
2010
Everything’s hunky dory when you’ve just uttered “I do” but there’s a lot more to marriage than diamonds and dinner sets. Here are 5 things that nobody ever tells you about life after marriage.
CHANGE ONLY YOURSELF
Trying to change your spouse spells marital doom. Ignore his mismatched clothes or when on a dinner date, consider her need of three hours to get dressed. It’s far less exhausting and you’re less likely to feature in your spouse’s secret murderous fantasies!
DON’T BE TIED AT THE HIP
When you start dating, all you want is to be together. This feelingdiminishes after the wedding but don’t be alarmed. It signifies that your
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Jul
07
2010
Truth is often stranger than fiction. Here’re some eyebrow-raising facts that are sure to shock, entertain and perhaps even inspire.
The everage married couple has sex about 58 times per year. This works out to a little more than once a week. If you’re way over this average – you’re probably still on your honeymoon.
Every one out of three married couple struggle with low sexual desire. This is partly due to the decline in novelty and variety, which are major sexual stimulants.
When it comes to the level of sexual satisfaction, it has been reported that married sex beats single sex.
Husbands – don’t be fooled by the
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Jul
06
2010
Myths and mystery surround female orgasms, which can lead to additional issues between couple if left unexplained or debunked.
Myth: An orgasm is always an earth – moving experience and there is something wrong if a women is unable to have one.
Fact : Some women have orgasm but don’t know it. Others may not experience orgasm by way of feeling of a contraction of the pelvic floor muscles. They do however reach a peak of of arousal after which they feel relaxed and contented, the same feelings other women experience after orgasm. By contrast, women who get very aroused and do not experience orgasm will sometimes feel nervous or edgy or
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Jun
30
2010
Parents think teachers are better equipped to handle the subjects while teachers think parents should take the responsibility off an already burdened education system.
So, how to teach children about sex?
Teach girls to dress respectfully and teach boys no matter how provocative a girl dresses, it doesn’t justify harassment or assault.
Teach girls to be fun and friendly without being seductive or lascivious.
Teach boys that they are responsible to protect others, not to exploit them.
Teach boys that while dating and upon reaching puberty, the urge to explore or give in to
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Jun
21
2010
Youngsters usually derive information on sex from sources like friends, books, advertisement, television, magazines and (dangerously) the internet. These sources may not necessarily provide them with accurate information. As such, sex education may also correct any misinformation that they may have no the subject, apart from adding to their existing knowledge.
Sex education emparted through schools can prove to be a significant and effective method of bettering the youngster’s sex-related knowledge, attitude and behaviour.
Many parents find it challenging to have “sex talk” with their children as they are simply not equipped to broach the subject. Parents should never use this as an excuse as they are the first teachers to a child and should not expect teachers
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Jun
17
2010
Do we educate our children early on sex or do we leave it till they reach adulthood? Some quarters of country are advising that we begin early to prevent further social ills while the proposal has struck a contentious nerve among others, deeming it “inappropriate“. EfiHafizah Hamzah (from Malaysia) tries to put ab impartial ear to the ground on this sensitive subject.
Promiscuity is not just a problem among youth. It exists even in the lives of our parents, uncles, aunties, young or old, celebrities and even politicians. It existed in our grandparents’ times as well and will continue into the future. The only possible difference in that now, with communicative and televised technology, these occurrences and cases have become more easily accessible to the general public.
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May
18
2010
Ternyata kualitas hubungan seksual yang baik akan mempengaruhi status kesehatan kita. Sistem imunitas yang baik dan berat badan yang stabil, adalah dua dari begitu banyak manfaat hubungan seksual yang tidak harus kita pungkiri. Karena sebagian orang awam menganggap seks adalah rutinitas yang menjemukan dan tidak mengherankan kalau di antara mereka enggan melakukannya.
“Hubungan seksual memberikan manfaat yang besar bagi tubuh. Ini bukan lelucon karena banyak penelitian membuktikan hal tersebut,” ucap Joy Davidson, PhD., psikolog dan seks terapis di New York. Setidaknya ada 10 manfaat sehat dari hubungan seksual yang terdiri dari :
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May
17
2010
Pada kenyataannya hubungan seks ternyata tak hanya mempengaruhi kehangatan rumah tangga kita karena aktivitas intim ini juga menjadi salah satu cara untuk membuat kita lebih sehat. Hubungan seks yang dilakukan setiap hari diartikan sama halnya kalau kita melakukan olahraga yang bisa menghabiskan kalori yang cukup besar.
Teaser di atas membuat Anda penasaran? Adalah Dr. Gloria G. Bramer, seorang seksolog di Georgia, Amerika Serikat, yang mengatakan hubungan seks yang berkualitas akan mempercantik tampilan kita. Karena aktivitas seks bersama suami, cukup ampuh mengatasi masalah-masalah kulit. “Ini adalah salah satu aktivitas yang bisa mempengaruhi kesehatan tubuh kita. Maka tak heran jika semua seksolog berpendapat, hubungan seksual harus dilakukan dengan rutin, sama seperti kita menyikat gigi atau menyisir
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May
14
2010
Kebanyakan orang yang suka dipijat akan merasakan tubuh yang kembali bugar dan sehat dan bagi yang menjalankan terapi pijat secara teratur akan merasa tidak nyaman seandainya dia absen melakukan terapi pijat. Tubuh akan merasa pegal-pegal dan capek. Bagi yang suka, dipijat setiap minggu di tempat yang bersih dan nyaman benar-benar membuat rileks. Ada yang suka dengan teknik urut menggunakan massage oil, ada pula yang suka pijat “enak” alias tidak terlalu sakit. Di lain pihak, banyak pula yang tidak suka dipijat karena geli atau tidak tahan sakit.
Orang yang rutin melakukan pijatan biasanya menginginkan teknik pijatan harus benar-benar menyentuh otot yang meregang akibat terlalu letih bekerja. Misalnya, berkonsentrasi pada pundak, leher, atau kaki. Rasa sakit yang ditimbulkan rasanya menjadi pertanda bahwa otot-otot yang semula
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